20 Years Later

 

June 1995
June 1995

Who are those people? Could it be that 20 years have passed since we met out in Yellowstone National Park? Could my body language possibly show anymore affection for Jonathan as I leave to go home? Wow. Things have changed.

February 2015
February 2015

Obviously from the pictures, you can tell we’ve both experienced quite a hair makeover. Neither one by choice. And my love for Jonathan couldn’t be any stronger – especially with seeing his sacrifice during this time. You get to truly see what someone is made of in times like these. It is not easy. We do not always think positively, smile and encourage each other – but I think we’ve done a pretty darn good job moving forward and trying to trust God through this out-of-the-blue diagnosis. Wow. 20 years.

So, I think I have an end-date. My Stem Cell doctor said I need to go live my life – after I sheepishly asked if I could possibly meet my family in Florida at the end of their 2-week trip. (celebrating my parents’ 50th anniversary – Congratulations, Mom & Dad). His response was so welcoming, but then the over-analyzing side of me thought, “Does he know something I don’t know?” These are the mind games that permeate through even the most mundane hospital visits.

So, the deal is that I can leave after I complete a checklist of procedures, tests, classes, etc. The biggest hold up is getting 2 more lumbar punctures with Methotrexate. That leaves me to estimate that I’ll be discharged on . . . . . . . . . June 15th! Yay! I see the finish line after what originally felt like would be an eternity.

Please pray as we wrap things up for: that my lumbar punctures move forward with few side effects, that my full-body lymphoma CT scan will be completely clear, and that now the healing will begin physically, emotionally, etc.

4 thoughts on “20 Years Later

  1. My dear April and Jonathan!
    Yes, you are both so dear to us – I can’t describe the journey you two have made and all the dedication, perseverance, endurance and character you have shown.

    We are so excited that you will be finishing up soon and joining us for some 30A time and relaxation. We have a good grill on the back porch and will cook up some really good stuff and also go to the “Back Porch”…oh, my we are so full of joy at your coming!

    I must ask who is that guy with the long hair and the Cleveland Indians shirt? I really don’t remember Jonathan looking like that – must have cut the hair before he proposed.

    We shall pray that you have an incident free finish up and continued strength. That was nice of Dr. Popat – I think that he truly is looking at your future in a positive way.

    Your kids are awesome, but definitely missing you and looking forward to your arrival.

    Much love always, Dad

    1. Congratulations on 20 years! What wonderful pictures, and I love the “hair makeover” comment. Blessings to you both! XO Deborah

  2. Congratulations April and Jonathan! I remember your wedding so well and it is hard for me to believe that 20 years have passed since that day. On that day you had no clue how far your love could carry you but now you know so much more about love than you did then. April you still have our prayers and hope your trip to Florida will be great!

  3. Beautiful blog with two people that God brought together twenty years ago!

    May you feel God’s loving arms around you both and His healing hands upon

    you April as we pray you will soon be able to join your family for a couple days

    here in Florida! Your three children are such a blessing and we “Thank You”

    for the trust you have placed in us! Now stay strong in His word and we will

    all be together soon! I am the LORD your God. I am holding your hand, so don’t

    be afraid. I am here to help you. Isaiah 41:13

    Love, Mom

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